50 Degrees in the Dining Room

50 Degrees in the Dining Room
Philippians 4:11-13; 2 Corinthians 11:24-28

Christians lack faith sometimes. In our society, we have things far easier than when Christianity originated nearly 2000 years ago.  Because of the apparent ease in our lives, we find it more difficult to persevere through certain situations. How many of us have made it through very tough conditions or problems? I would say that probably all of us have made it through such circumstances. But how many of us, if we were told before hand of the difficulty, would have said, “I can make it through that with no problem.

” When we moved near the Texas panhandle town of Clarendon, we were able to experience one of the hottest summers they ever had, as well as one of the harshest winters. The extremes were amazing. With no air conditioning, at times we would lay our one-year old son down for his nap and it was 90 degrees in the room. The highest it got was 93. Even with fans aimed at him, the dry heat was still hot.

In the winter, we were in store for culture shock. We had a vented wall heater in the living room and one in the bedroom. In other words we had a propane tank outside and no central heat. We all slept in the one large bedroom. On the first real cold night we kept the heater in the bedroom high enough to keep it 67 degrees in the room. I went outside the next morning to check the gauge on the propane tank.  The gauge may have been malfunctioning, but it read that we had used 5% percent of our propane by keeping it 67 degrees in our room for one night.

We made a decision right then to sleep in the smaller living room with the French doors closed to the adjacent dining room. We were able to keep it about 65 degrees or so in there and not use all our propane. But once we opened those French doors to venture to the bathroom, we stepped into the low 50s.

We only had to live like that for a few months. Looking back at those times living near Clarendon, they were some of the most relaxed times of our life together, but at the same time, they were trying times. If someone would have told us about some of the trials we endured there before hand, we might not have moved. The extreme heat and cold were nothing compared to some of our problems back then, but we wouldn’t exchange living there for anything.

I spoke about a couple of our humorous problems to show how little they were in comparison to those of other people, especially the Apostle Paul. He learned to be content or as the original language helps to point out, he learned to be independent of his situations.  When he states in Philippians 4:13 that he can do all things through Christ, Paul means he can make it through the situations mentioned in the previous verse and all circumstances in-between without them affecting him negatively.

What kind of circumstances might those have been? A quick look at II Corinthians 11:24-28 discusses some of the events in Paul’s life: five times he received lashes, three times he was beaten with rods, stoned one time, shipwrecked three times, adrift at sea for a day and night, in danger from rivers, robbers, and from his own people, from Gentiles, he was in danger in the city and the wilderness, danger from false brethren and from the sea, often without food, and there was danger from cold and exposure.

Paul had it rough. During some of his trying circumstances, he even sang hymns to God. Let us remember to understand Philippians 4:13 in the same way the writer of it intended. He didn’t mean a garbage man through Christ could walk into a research laboratory and find a cure for cancer. Paul meant that through Christ, he could be content in any and all situations. A better translation would be that he didn’t let his circumstances affect him negatively. It absolutely worked for Paul; it can work for us too.

A bit of preaching, Struggles

I’ve Seen The Future

I’ve Seen the Future

Revelation 21 (especially verse 4)

As I stated in one of the earlier Devotional Tidbits, I would use the movie Say Anything as an illustration in these devotionals more than once. Well, here is number two. Near the beginning of the movie the female love interest, Diane Court gives her valedictorian address. In her speech, she states, “I have seen the future, and all I can say is … go back.”

Her father loves that line, but most everyone else seems lost by her words. She declared that day, a truth common to most people graduating. It doesn’t matter if that graduation is from high school or college. There is a fear about the future. There are so many insecurities in our unstable world. After the events of September 11, 2001, uncertainty is one of the certainties we must now cope with.

Christians should have a more stable outlook on life, shouldn’t we? We are given so many assurances in God’s word about our future. Today I want to look at a glimpse of heaven. John was given a first hand glance of heaven, he then wrote down his experience for us. Revelation chapter 21 speaks to this New Jerusalem and its beauty, but I especially love the comforting words of Revelation 21:4 in referring to our living with God: He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.

Isn’t it amazing? God will wipe away every one of our tears!!! No more pain!!! Wow!!! The comfort we will receive in Heaven is seen in this proclamation of no more tears and pain. But what about happy people, those with no pain, those with no tears, what will they get from Heaven? What else will Heaven be like? Christians might not ask these questions, for we know we will be happy to be with God and praise Him. However non-Christians might want to know a little more about Heaven.

Well, this is what I say to folks who wonder what Heaven will be like. I simply tell them to think of the most wonderful delight they experience here on earth. I then tell them to multiply that feeling by ten, a hundred, even a thousand. Heaven will be even more wonderful than that, I say. My son asked me the other day if he could sleep in Heaven. I assured him that if he wanted to sleep in Heaven, that God would let him. For me, Heaven could be like watching the Cubs win the World Series each year, or like watching the Pittsburgh Steelers never losing to the New England Patriots again (sorry for the sports references for those who don’t like sports).

The main point we must understand is that Heaven is not full of suffering as we find in this world. We should look forward to a time like that. I know I look forward to any day during the week when I am not stressed out. I can hardly imagine an eternity without stress, can you? But it does exist for those of us who make Jesus our savior while we reside in this world.

May your week be blessed by knowing that future comfort of Revelation 21:4.

Hope, Peace

Saying I’m Sorry

Saying "I’m Sorry."

A while back, my wife and I had an argument. We were both to blame. “Do you want me to say I’m sorry?” asked Mary Ann after a while.  I just stood there nodding my head yes. “I’m sorry,” said Mary Ann. After hearing her apology, the cold ice seemed to melt away from my heart. We hugged and made up. Then I did something that I should do more often, I too said I was sorry for what had happened. Things again were happy in Brian & Mary Ann’s world.

Saying the words, “I’m sorry,” are not easy to say for most people.  They are an admittance of guilt. Phrases like “I did it” or “I’m guilty” don’t naturally spring from our mouths.  Therefore, a phrase like, “I’m sorry,” doesn’t jump to the tip of our tongues when we find ourselves in a difficult situation.

In the example above, I said how much better I felt after hearing, “I’m sorry.” I’m a merely a human being and I felt good afterward. Imagine how God feels after hearing the words, “I’m sorry.” Imagine how God feels after he sees actions that represent a sorrowful repentance for our wrongs. There are different ways for telling God, “I’m sorry.” The ways differ according to the circumstance.

1) If we are not a Christian, we should repent of our sins (say “I’m sorry for our sins) and be baptized (immersed) underneath the water and receive forgiveness of sins and the gift of the Holy Spirit. (Acts 2:38)  -repent has the meaning of turning around in a different direction from how we have been living.

2) If we are Christians, we can simply ask God to forgive us for any particular sin. This is a sign of, “I’m sorry.”

3) As Christians, we can take one of our sinful behaviors and perform it less often. This demonstrates the principle of James 1:22 – Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. This is the theory of, “Actions speak louder than words.”

As a Christian, I find myself using #’s 2 & 3. I find # 3 the most difficult. Just like in actual life with my wife, friends, family and co-workers, saying “I’m sorry” is the easy part. Changing an offensive behavior is the hard part. It’s one thing to say “I’m sorry” to my wife for being late. But if I continue to be late time and time again, that apology sounds mighty hollow. I think we’d all agree that actions are more difficult than words. Whether we are saying “I’m sorry,” to a friend, family member, co-worker, spouse, or God, we need to change the behavior that got us to say “I’m sorry,” in the first place. That shows we mean it.

A bit of preaching, God's Love

Making It Personal

Making it personal!
Matthew 27:32-66

One night my four year old son wanted me to read him a story from his children’s Bible. In my usually inpatient way, I tried to pick it out for him since he was taking a long time. Finally I gave in and I am thankful I did so.

He finally picked a page with text and the facing page had a picture of Jesus on the cross with the thieves on either side of Him. I asked my son Ezekiel why he chose that story. He told me, “Cause that’s my favorite story.” One question that arose from the telling of Jesus’ crucifixion was why Jesus had to die for our sins. I was left a bit baffled in trying to explain this to my son but I did the best I could.

I spent a few more minutes with Zeke before leaving his room. He then laughed and told me that I couldn’t go to bed because he had made a mess on my bed and he didn’t clean it up. I began to tell him that I was his father and that I’d clean up his mess. Then it struck me, maybe I could relate this in some way to Jesus on the cross. I tried to think as quickly as I could and this is what came out of my mouth. Whether I could have done better is anyone’s guess.

I said to my son, “I’ll clean up your mess Zeke, cause I’m your father and I love you.”  I continued, “That’s sort of like what God, our father in heaven did for us. People make messes all the time and God knew we needed some way for us to have our messes cleaned up because we can’t do it by ourselves. That’s why he let his son Jesus die on the cross. It was the only way to clean up the mess that people make.”

Hopefully a little bit of that will get into his mind and eventually his heart. Hopefully I will remember that every day of my life. I need to better remember that everlasting and merciful love of God. It is hard to believe that he gave up his son to die for me. It’s a bit easier to think of God giving up his son to die for the whole world, but we need to personalize Jesus’ death more. Make Jesus’ death more relevant to yourself.  Try saying the phrase, “God gave up his son to die on the cross for me, for my life, even with all the wrong things I’ve done in my life! Jesus died for ME!!!”

When we personalize Jesus’ death, maybe we will take more serious our responsibility of living Christian lives. We are already bought with a price, let us act like it. I speak mostly for myself, but maybe a few people reading this might have needed such a kick in the pants like I sometimes need. I thank my son for wanting to read his favorite Bible story, the true story of Jesus on the cross.

God's Love